誠(chéng)信的規(guī)則

Progressive future and successful life require discipline and character. These things are embedded into the pattern of our lives through proper education and interaction with fellow human beings. A solid foundation of time-tested nurtured values attach a character to each and every one of us. Finally， wherever we go we carry our character sub-consciously with us.

A person is character personified only if he has enough credibility. Credibility is an essential attribute that is built on the elements of integrity， reliability， veracity， competence and commitment. Credibility shines in those people who are ethically motivated. Credibility is an important tool in improving your people skills. Credibility ensures a person to win the genuine respect， confidence and trust of others.

To build up enough credibility we have to have the following elements：

Integrity：

In simple words it means standing for your values and being firm on your views. Integrity is an essential factor to win the adulation and trust of others. Integrity is the solidarity with which you make your presence felt.

Reliability：

Reliability is a very addictive breeding ground for mutual trust and improved interpersonal relations. Evidence of reliability lies in the consistency with which we deliver on commitments， promises and statements.

Competence：

Competence is the combined effort of knowledge application， experience and conscientious effort to the best possible solution for a given problem. When deadlines have to be met at the earliest a persons competence is the only handy tool that can see him through that deadline. A competent person has no ifs and buts in his vocabulary. He wont fix a blame for failure on something or someone， but will modulate himself to rectify the situation.

Commitment：

A proper canalization of ones energy， enthusiasm， talent and thoughts into completing a given project or thoughts is commitment. Commitment calls for a firm mental resolve to fulfill the job at hand and see it through. A committed person wont rest on his laurels till he has completed his duty.

No one is born perfect. But one can hone ones skills by being true to oneself. Early realization of the important change in your life can take you places. So be far-sighted and do let me know the results.

進(jìn)步的未來(lái)和成功的生活需要紀(jì)律和個(gè)人品質(zhì)：他們通過(guò)恰當(dāng)?shù)慕逃团c他人的互動(dòng)根植于我們的生活方式中。久經(jīng)考驗(yàn)的價(jià)值觀奠定的堅(jiān)實(shí)基礎(chǔ)賦予每一個(gè)人品質(zhì)。最后不管我們走到哪里，我們身上都會(huì)潛意識(shí)地隨時(shí)反映我們的品質(zhì)。

如果有足夠的誠(chéng)信，品質(zhì)就會(huì)個(gè)性化。誠(chéng)信是一個(gè)基本的特質(zhì)，是建立在正直、可靠、誠(chéng)實(shí)、能力和承諾的基礎(chǔ)上。誠(chéng)信是崇尚道德的人的身上發(fā)出的光芒。誠(chéng)信可以提高你做人的技巧。誠(chéng)信使人們獲得由衷的敬意、自信和別人的信任。要建立足夠的誠(chéng)信，我們必須擁有以下的品質(zhì)：

正直：

用簡(jiǎn)單的話而言就是捍衛(wèi)你的價(jià)值觀，堅(jiān)持你的觀點(diǎn)。正直使你得到別人的尊敬和信任。正直使人們無(wú)法無(wú)視你的存在。

可靠性：

可靠性是培養(yǎng)相互信任和提升人際關(guān)系的基礎(chǔ)。可靠性反映在我們和別人的溝通，對(duì)他人的承諾和陳述時(shí)的一致性。

能力：

能力是知識(shí)應(yīng)用、經(jīng)驗(yàn)和認(rèn)真應(yīng)對(duì)解決問(wèn)題的綜合表現(xiàn)。當(dāng)要趕一個(gè)期限時(shí)，個(gè)人的能力就是助他達(dá)到期限目的的唯一方便工具。有能力的人的詞典里面沒(méi)有“如果”和“但是”這些字眼。他不會(huì)為失敗而責(zé)備其他人和事，而是調(diào)整自己去改變處境。

承諾：

正確投入個(gè)人的能量、熱情、才能及思考去完成一個(gè)項(xiàng)目或?qū)崿F(xiàn)一個(gè)想法就是承諾。承諾需要堅(jiān)定的決心去完成手頭的工作。一個(gè)守承諾的人不完成任務(wù)是不會(huì)言休的。

沒(méi)有人生來(lái)是完美的，但可以通過(guò)坦誠(chéng)對(duì)待自己來(lái)不斷磨練自己。早些實(shí)現(xiàn)生活中的重要變化，會(huì)使你所向披靡。因此保持遠(yuǎn)見(jiàn)，并告訴我結(jié)果如何。