不要埋怨生活

Often heard people complain about， why not my face， why so bad weather today， why do I live in such a poor family， why God told me…why should we complain about it complained that it? Life was not all the best， life was not perfect， on the contrary， the ups and downs， is the routine As the saying goes： a white head; laugh less decade. Do not complain， everyone’s life will not be easy， but precisely because of these twists and turns in folding wave， acquired a colorful life.

If we can often look at the issue from another angle， you might easily find themselves still very exciting life. You can not change the face， smile why do not you think about indulgence; you can not change the weather， why do not you change the mood. As the saying goes:after the storm. The same is true of life， after training can often make life wonderful.

China， a writer came to the United States，he saw a flower of the old lady is always very happy， very strange. He would pick a flower asked:“Why are you always so happy?” Replied the old lady to make the writer stand in amazement. “Jesus was crucified is the world’s darkest day， three days later to Easter. All the trouble to wait for three days as long as the right not to vanish into thin air.” Writer for the old lady answered and moved an old lady could look at this free and easy life， could see so thoroughly to life. King inventors-Edison filament do in order to find the best materials have been done a 1000 experiment many times and failed. Have a laugh at his neighbor:“Do you how to do 1000 experiments have failed many times?” Edison said：“I am not found more than 1000 kinds of inappropriate material filament so it?” Edison failed to look at from another angle， am quite sure that it can be the most suitable materials， is precisely because of this self-confidence， they are able to make unremitting efforts， finally successful.

People to love life， love life， to have self-confidence， it is necessary to make unremitting efforts towards the target， like Ai Qing said，“Even if we are a candle， wax should be dry before the torch ashes tears; even though we are a match should be at the crucial moment there is a ray of light”， if so， will the meaning of our lives， our lives will be able to issue a strange glory. Finally， I had to remind you that in the face of setbacks， do not complain about it complained that the old， and to learn how to transform the issue of perspective， so that life is not susceptible to“rain” by knockout.

常常聽見有人抱怨，為什么我的容顏不是國色天香，為什么天氣這么糟糕，為什么我生活在這么貧窮的家庭里，為什么老天爺這樣對我……為什么要抱怨這抱怨那呢?生活本來就不是事事如意，生活本來就不會十全十美，相反，起起落落，悲歡離合才是家常便飯。俗話說的好：愁一愁，白了頭;笑一笑，十年少。不要抱怨，每個人的人生都不會是一帆風順的，而正是因為有這些波波折折，才練就出異彩紛呈的人生。

如果能常換個角度來看問題，你可能會很容易發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的人生照樣很精彩。你不能改變?nèi)蓊仯愫尾幌胍幌敕趴v笑容;你不能改變天氣，你何不改變心情。俗話說：風雨之后才見彩虹。人生也是如此，歷經(jīng)磨練往往能造就精彩的人生。

中國的一位作家來到美國，他看見一個賣花的老太太總是很高興，很是奇怪。他就挑了一支花問：“您為什么總是如此的開心呢?”老太太的回答使作家愣住了。“耶穌被釘在十字架上是全世界最黑暗的一天，可三天后就是復活節(jié)。一切的煩惱只要等待三天不就煙消云散了嗎?”作家為老太太的回答而感動，一位老太太竟能這樣灑脫地看待人生，竟能把人生看得如此透徹。發(fā)明家大王愛迪生為了尋找做燈絲的最好材料曾做了1000多次實驗，并且都失敗了。有一位鄰居嘲笑他：“你怎么做1000多次實驗都失敗了?”愛迪生說：“我不是發(fā)現(xiàn)了1000多種不合適做燈絲的材料了嗎?”愛迪生能換個角度看待失敗，深信一定能獲得最合適的材料，正因為有這種自信，所以能不懈努力，最后終于獲得成功。

人要熱愛生活，熱愛生命，要有自信，要朝著既定目標不懈努力，要像艾青所說的那樣，“即使我們是一支蠟燭，也應(yīng)該蠟炬成灰淚始干;即使我們是一根火柴，也應(yīng)該在關(guān)鍵時刻有一絲光亮”，如果能這樣，那么我們的人生就會有意義，我們的人生就能發(fā)出異樣的光彩。最后要提醒大家，在遇到挫折的時候，不要總是抱怨，而要學會變換角度思考問題，這樣就不易被人生的“風雨”所擊倒。