你明知道無法和TA在一起，卻還是去愛TA，這樣好嗎

你明知道無法和TA在一起，卻還是去愛TA，這樣好嗎

Is It Okay to Love Someone Knowing You Can't Be with Them？

@Gene Spafford

Of course you can love someone without spending the future with them... and you don't need permission to do so!

However, a key thing is to avoid wistfully wishing that you could be with that person if that is not to be. Accept what fate has given you, and maybe seek out①seek out 找出；搜出；想獲得 同近義詞： chase down ， find out about Talk about your job hunt with only the most energizing friends，family membersand colleagues，and seek out positive acquaintances. 只與那些最有精神的朋友、家人和同事談論你的求職問題，并找出認識的人中積極的人。others to love, too. Love is a renewable resource.

@Elsa Schraeder

Sure, it is ok to love someone knowing that you will never be with them. However, be careful that this love doesn't morph into an emotional block which prevents②prevent 英 ［pr?'vent］ 美 ［pri'v?nt］ vt. 預防，防止；阻止 vi. 妨礙，阻止prevent from 阻止，制止；妨礙 prevent and control pollution 防治污染；預防和控制污染We must prevent the trouble from spreading. 我們必須防止這個亂子擴大。The food in the cooler can prevent spoiling. 冰箱里的食品可以防止腐敗。you from finding and loving someone who you can be with.

@Anshi Akanksha

@Joy Samudrala

Y es! it's completely okay to love someone knowing that they won't be with you in future!!!

HAVE NO EXPECTATIONS!!!

This is the root cause which can hurt you pretty bad. The more you expect, the more you remain attached to the person and this will make things hard and worse for you. Love her but don't expect her to love you back, this will leave nothing but disappointment and make it worse.

So don't expect anything from her and just do things, because you just wanna love her and want her to be happy.

Small piece of advice.

If you think it's not possible to forget about her because she's the one you love and you just can't really get over her...trust me it's all in your head. Time is being wasted. She's standing like a door between you and the women who's right for you. Get over and things shall happen.

You deserve someone better.

你當然可以去愛一個無法共度未來的人……而且你做這件事并不需要得到他人首肯。

但是，關鍵是你要避免極度期盼，不要期待假如換種情況，你就可以和那個人在一起。接受你的命運吧，也許你可以找到其他人來愛。愛是可再生資源。

當然可以，你可以去愛一個明知道永遠不會在一起的人。但是，你要注意，不要讓這份愛成為你的感情障礙，阻止你尋找并愛上一個可以與你在一起的人。

是的，當然可以去愛一個明知道不會和你共度未來的人?。。?/p>

不要有所期待?。。?/p>

這是會傷你很深的最主要原因。你期望得越多，你就越會去與她保持聯系，而對你來說這會讓事情變得更糟、更艱難。愛她，但不要期待她也會愛你，否則只會徒增失望，讓事情更糟。

所以不要期待從她那里得到什么，你只要做你應做的，因為你只是想要愛著她、想要她快樂。

給個小建議。

如果你覺得沒法忘了她，因為你愛她，過不了她這道坎……相信我，這都只是你腦中的想法。時光在流逝，她就像是一扇門，站在你和你的真命天女之間，跨過去，一切都會好起來。

你值得更好的人。