自己與他人

人，生于世，當頂天立地；人，活于世，當問心無愧。一世浮華，只當做自己，心中有他人，修籬種菊，一世清歡。

《戰狼2》最近很火，票房創下記錄，作為這部電影的主演以及導演的吳京卻備受非議。在向九寨溝縣災區全款時，許多網友覺得吳京的捐款與他的收入相比，少了一些。

在這個世上，總有一些東西比金錢更為重要，然而我們卻總用金錢來衡量，審視他人。我們總關注捐款的數目，卻忘記那樣蒼白無力的數字下是所有捐款人的愛心。無論數額多與少，當你在關懷他人，心里裝有他人時，你已經給予了這世界最珍貴的禮物。

Ourselves and others

People who were born in the world should achieve something； People who lived in the world should be regret. In a short and flourishing life， we should only be ourselves， we should care about others， repair hedge and plant chrysanthemum， live a relaxing and happy life..

\"Wolf Warriors 2\" recently is popular， the box office made a record. As the film’s starring and director， Wu Jing has been much criticized. When he contributed money to Jiuzhaigou， many netizens thought Wu Jing’s donations were a little less than his income.

There are always things in this world that are more important than money， however we always measure by money and look at others. We always focus on the number of donations， but forget that under the pale number is the love of all donors. Regardless of the amount of donations， when you care about others， you have given the most precious gift of the world.

或許在我們看來，有錢人時該多捐點，但這并不能成為攻擊他人的理由。上帝是公平，每個人得到的與失去的是正比的，而且每個人擁有的東西都是他用盡自己的努力換來的。當我們要求一個人將他努力所得到的屬于他自己的東西，拱手讓給他人時，我想這有些殘酷。這樣的殘酷或許會打碎那一顆顆熾熱的真心。心中有他人，從此這世界上的你便不會孤單，縱使在生命最彷徨，最掙扎的歲月，總會有一雙手，溫暖而有力，給予你力量。

Maybe in our views， rich people should donate more， but it can not be a reason to attack others. God is fair， and tje things obtained and lost of everyone is in direct proportion， and what everybody owns is he used work to change. When we ask a man to hand over something which is obtained by his own hard work to others， I think it is a bit cruel. Such cruel may break the glowing heart. Caring about others and in this world you will not be lonely. Even in the most simmered， the most struggling years there will always be hands which are warm and powerful giving you strength.

并不清楚吳京對于這件事的態度，但勇敢做自己是我認為他最好的態度。以我眼看世界，萬物皆賦予我的色彩。每個人都會有自己的看法，或贊同，或否定，我們無法取悅每一個人，那么便取悅自己。只當做自己，勇敢做自己，做自己認為對的事，活在自己對于事物的認知中。吳京在事后并沒有補捐或是有其他相應的作為，其實這是一種對自己行為的認可，我的做法與他人無關，只因它符合我對這個世界的理解。

We are not clear about the attitude of Wu Jing of this incident， but I think daring to be himself is his best attitude. Using my eyes to see the world， all things are given by my color. Everyone will have own opinion， some agree， some deny， we can not please everyone， then please ourselves. Only being ourselves， daring to be ourselves， doing what we think is right， living in own understanding of things. Wu Jing did not make any supplementary contributions or have other appropriate actions after the event. In fact， this is his recognition for the action. My approach has nothing to do with others because it meets my understanding of the world.

或許，它不是最好的，卻是我內心最真實的聲音。永遠別活在他人的眼中，做自己才最美。

人活一世，最難的便是在別人的指點中做好自己。很多時候，我們做著自己不喜歡的事，只為了他人能開心。久而久之我們忘記了心中的自己，忘記了自己最渴望的樣子。

從今天起，請勇敢的做自己，成為自己心中最美好的存在，讓生命充滿精彩。

Perhaps it is not the best， but it is the most real voice in my mind. Never living in the eyes of others， it is beautiful to be their most beautiful.

People live in the world， the hardest thing is to be ourselves in the advice of others. In the most of time， we do what we do not like， just for others to be happy. As time goes by we forget ourselves in our minds， forgetting ourselves which we desire most.

Starting from today， please dare to be yourself and become the best existence in your mind， make life full of wonderful.