How many times have you heard the expression that most people spend more time planning their vacation than they do planning their lives? I would expand that expression by adding that most people spend more time \"thinking\" about their vacation than they do thinking about what's important in their life.
My friend Mike Delfino wrote an outstanding article this week. It's called \"Millionaire Cornposite1\" and it analyzes2 one of the big differences between super-successful people and everyone else. He writes \"I recently visited with a Real Estate Multi Millionaire Mogul. What did I see next to his desk? His vision statement, along with a list of what he values in life -- hand written.\"
\"A few months back, I interviewed an individual who has sold over a billion dollars worth of products on television. He told me that he reads his life and business vision and goals daily, and that he takes
time to visualize3 exactly what he wants to create -- EACH NIGHT before falling asleep.\"
What is your life's purpose or your personal mission statement? Is it written down? Do you review it and think about it often? Is your life organized around your purpose and a set of goals that support that purpose?
Without purpose and goals -- definitely directed thought -- you are like the proverbial4 \"ship without a rudder.\" There is a power in your purpose and in your goals. It is the power that takes you over obstacles, the fuel that propels5 you toward the life you envision6.
One of my favorite passages of James Allen is one he wrote in The Mastery of Destiny:
\"All successful people are people of purpose. They hold fast to an idea, a project, a plan, and will not let it go; they cherish7 it, brood upon it, tend and develop it; and when assailed8 by difficulties, they refuse to be beguiled9 into surrender10; indeed, the intensity of the purpose increases with the growing magnitude of the obstacles encountered. \" And that's worth thinking about.
我們多少次聽到過這樣的論點:大多數人在規劃假期上所花的時間比他們在規劃生活上花的時間要多。我為這一觀點做了一點延伸:大多數的人在“考慮”假期上花的時間比他們在考慮人生中重要的事情上花的時間要多。
我的朋友邁克·德爾菲諾寫了一篇杰出的文章。名字叫做《百萬富翁的構造》,其中分析了超級成功者與其他人的一個重要區別,他寫道:“我最近拜訪了一位房地產界的杰出富翁。你們猜我看見他桌旁放了些什么?他對自己夢想的描述和一張列有生活中值得珍惜之物的清單——都是手寫的。”
“幾個月前,我采訪了另一位獲得巨大成功的商人,他通過電視節目賣出的產品總價值超過10億美元。他告訴我:每天他都思考生活和事業中自己的夢想與目標,他花時間將他想要實現的理想在腦海中形象化——每晚睡覺前都這樣做。”
你的人生目標和個人使命是什么?你把它們都寫下來了嗎?你經常回顧并思考它們嗎?你的生活是圍繞著理想和一系列相關的目標而安排的嗎?
如果沒有理想和目標——明確的方向性思考——你就會像俗語說的那樣:“一條沒有舵的船”。理想和目標中蘊含著力量。它是使你越過障礙的力量,它是推動你向美好生活前進的燃料。
在詹姆土·艾倫的文章中,有一段我很喜歡,摘自《命運的主人》:
“所有成功人士都有清晰的理想和目標。他們緊緊把握一個點子,一項工程,一個計劃,絕不讓它溜走;珍視它,讓它慢慢發芽;呵護它,讓它成長;當困難襲來時,他們絕不投降;甚至,追求理想的熱情隨著遭遇阻礙的強度而愈發增長。”這是值得我們思索的。
①composite n.合成物
②analyze v.分析,解釋
③visualize v.在腦中使(某人或某物)形象化,設想,想像
④proverbial adj.諺語的,諺語所表達的
⑤propels v.推動,推進
⑥envision v.預想,設想
⑦cherish v.珍愛,珍視,愛護
⑧assail v.猛擊,痛打
⑨beguile v.誘騙;吸引(某人);愉快地度過
⑩surrender v.屈服,投降