致小孩：成長中你可能不知道的事

There are so many things I wish I had known while growing up but no one ever tells me. Maybe it’s because people think it’s just something you have to experience firsthand to understand. Here are 7 things， and it would be nice to know beforehand：

真希望我在成長時(shí)能知道一些事情，可惜沒人告訴過我。或許在大人們看來，一切都得靠自己的經(jīng)歷領(lǐng)悟。下面有7個(gè)道理，希望你能提前明白：

1. Spend Time Knowing Yourself 了解自我

Don’t be afraid to try new things and fail at them； failing builds character. It’s a time of searching， getting to know oneself and what you want in this world and what you have to contribute to the world.

別害怕嘗試和失敗；失敗塑造性格。這將是探索發(fā)現(xiàn)的一段時(shí)光，應(yīng)當(dāng)盡力了解自己，弄清楚自己想要什么，將來能為這個(gè)世界做些什么。

2. Don’t Expect Smooth Seas 別指望一帆風(fēng)順

There will be many challenges. Just try to take life as it comes. If there’s a door that is standing wide open for you and another that you’re trying to get through by knocking it down， sometimes it’s best to take the door that’s already open for you.

成長途中會(huì)遇到無數(shù)挑戰(zhàn)，這時(shí)請(qǐng)順其自然。如果前面有兩扇門：一扇門迎面敞開，另一扇門卻緊閉待敲；那最好選擇已經(jīng)敞開的那扇門。

3. Keep Your Plans Loose 靈活計(jì)劃

Speaking of plans， keep them loose and flexible. Remember that don’t waste time beating yourself up because your plans didn’t go the way you wanted. Don’t worry about things you can’t change； focus on making new plans or goals.

計(jì)劃要靈活。請(qǐng)記住：不要因?yàn)槭虑闆]有完全按照計(jì)劃實(shí)施而苛責(zé)自己；不要為自己無法改變的事情煩惱；立足當(dāng)下，專心制定新的計(jì)劃和目標(biāo)吧。

Vocabulary

build：建立，建造；構(gòu)筑。

contribute：貢獻(xiàn)；出力。

challenge：挑戰(zhàn)；懷疑。

flexible：靈活的，可變通的。

4. Time Is a Limited Resource 時(shí)間是有限資源

Nothing lasts forever. There will be both good and bad times. It’s important to really enjoy and savor the good moments in life because you’ll need those memories to reflect back on when the bad times come.

世事無永恒。生活總是有喜有悲、有起有落。珍惜生活中的美好時(shí)光，當(dāng)不幸降臨時(shí)，你還能擁有美好的回憶。

5. Life is Hard 生活是艱難的

When you’re a teenager， you’re just at the beginning of your life. Life will throw everything that it can at you； it will try to break you and choke you until you can’t breathe， but you can’t let it.

青春年少的你現(xiàn)在才剛剛開始人生歷程。生活會(huì)想方設(shè)法為難你：它打擊你、壓倒你，直到你無法呼吸。但你決不能讓它得逞。

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6. Make Your Health a Priority 健康是必選

Start developing a healthier lifestyle. Take care of yourself physically and mentally.

開始嘗試健康的生活方式。不論是生理還是心理，都請(qǐng)照顧好自己。

7. Attitude Determines Your Altitude 態(tài)度決定高度

Attitude is everything. Having a good attitude can make all the difference in your life. It makes life easier and happier when you have a positive outlook.

態(tài)度決定一切。良好的態(tài)度能讓生活與眾不同。如果你積極樂觀，生活也會(huì)變得更舒暢更開心。

Vocabulary

savor：欣賞；品嘗。

reflect back on：回想；體現(xiàn)。

choke：使（人）窒息。

breathe：呼吸。

priority：優(yōu)先（權(quán)）；比……重要。

outlook：前景；觀點(diǎn)，見解。